Description
Negotiating Desire Differences (October 2023)
Due to hormonal variations between men and women, there are natural differences in sexual frequency desires as well as dissimilar arousal responses. This can create strong tensions within a relationship including the cessation of sexual activity by one of the spouses. Join us as we share the keys to lessening this tension and working together toward greater sexual fulfillment and enjoyment.
Love Styles and Their Sexual Propensities (August 2023)
Did you know your love style is involved in your sexual expression? Each of the love styles will struggle relationally and emotionally within relationships… including sex. Join us as we explore each style, how sex is affected and how to become more securely connected.
The Male Stargazer’s Guide to His Wifes Sexual Galaxy (November 2021)
Looking at marriage difficulties from the perspective of gender differences has become passe. Seventy years of scientific research in the attachment field has made it clear that the attachment or love styles discussed in How We Love are not about gender. All attachment styles react the same way in relationships whether they are male or female, so men and women are very much alike if they share a common love style.
The Male Stargazer’s Guide to His Wifes Sexual Galaxy eBook
The significant difference between the sexes lies in their hormonal composition. Unless you attended my Life Science class at Montebello High School in the 1970’s, no one really explained these differences and the resulting sexual tension between a husband and wife created by this hormonal mismatch his and hers (that part I did not discuss with my students). In this eBook I want to help you understand why sexual struggles exist and how to lower if not eliminate entirely the sexual tension and animus that invades many marriages. Come join the field trip to my observatory as we learn to gaze through a new telescope.
How WE Love Sex….or Don’t 6 Hour Workshop
In this six-hour workshop we discuss the five Love Styles and the common sexual problems each faces. As a couple learns how to cultivate a deep emotional bond and a spiritual connection they bring those parts of their relationship into every sexual encounter. A lot of us bare our bodies in a sexual encounter without ever having exposed much of our soul. We attempt to enjoy physical intimacy while struggling with emotional intimacy. In many cases, we don’t even know how to uncover our soul and be vulnerable with our clothes on. Of all of God’s creation, sex has been the most distorted, spoiled and desecrated from God’s original design and intent. In fact we are so saturated with the world’s view it’s difficult to keep God’s perspective in mind.
We offer this workshop in two formats: streaming videos and audio download. We discuss the five love styles and the common sexual problems each faces. If a couple cannot open up emotionally and spiritually the sexual relationship will reflect that difficulty. The streaming video will be stored in your account so you can view it anytime. The 40 page How We Love Sex…or Don’t Syllabus will be available as a PDF download upon purchase.
NOTE: If you purchase the streaming product, you must create an account at check out to view your streaming videos.
We respectfully ask you not to duplicate these copyrighted materials. Thank You.
What’s Included?
- New PDF download of the syllabus with discussion questions for each session
- Latest research on the female sexual response cycle and new insight regarding the common female problem of “low desire”
- New and informative Ted Talk with a new look at pornography
- Tips for to negotiating a mutually satisfying sex life
- 34 questions for couples to foster discussion about sex
- Breakdown of fast food sex vs banquet sex
- Tips to be fully present during sex
We are passionate about the contents of this seminar because we watch the “lights go on” as people understand for the first time how to bring healing to their relationships. We consistently hear feedback from attendees that this workshop gave new insights and helped open up discussion that was beneficial to a couple’s sex life.
This package includes 8 sections
Session 1: Sex the Great Exposer: If sex is so great why is it so hard? (20 minutes)
Session 2: How the Love Styles Affect Sexual Intimacy: Avoider and the Pleaser (43 minutes)
Session 3: How the love Styles Affect Sexual Intimacy: Part A: The Vacillator (30 minutes) andPart B: The Controller and Victim (30 minutes)
Session 4: Part A: Family of Origin Issues (30 minutes) andPart B: Overcoming Cultural Influences on Our Sexuality (37 minutes)
Session 5: Male and Female Sexual Responses and Desire Differences (30 minutes)
Session 6: Moving Towards Better Sex Life (26 minutes)
Session 7: Common Challenges
Session 8: Part A: Holding time (17 minutes) and Part B: Questions from the Audience (36 minutes
