Description
This six-hour workshop on sexuality is divided into eight sessions and was filmed live at Crossline Church in Laguna Hills, California, in 2023. The workshop features updated and expanded content from our original 2011 recording, exploring sexuality through the How We Love attachment lens.
The workshop also includes an extensive 40-page How We Love Sex…or Don’t Syllabus, designed to help couples process what they’re learning, deepen their understanding of one another, and have meaningful conversations about their emotional and sexual relationship. This is a downloadable PDF.
The workshop is available in two formats: streaming video or audio download. The streaming video will be stored in your How We Love account.
We respectfully ask you not to duplicate these copyrighted materials.
WHAT’S INCLUDED:
- 6-Hour How We Love Sex workshop video or audio replay depending upon purchase type selected
- (Video available after purchase under Courses at the top of the page under My Account)
- (Audio available after purchase under Downloads tab)
- PDF download of the syllabus with discussion questions for each session (Available after purchase under the Downloads tab)
WHAT’S COVERED:
- Research on the female sexual response cycle and insight regarding the common female problem of “low desire”
- Informative Ted Talk with a new look at pornography
- Tips for negotiating a mutually satisfying sex life
- 34 questions for couples to foster discussion about sex
- Breakdown of fast food sex vs banquet sex
- Tips on how to be fully present during sex
We’re passionate about the content of this seminar because we’ve watched the “lights go on” as people begin to understand themselves and their relationships in new ways—and discover practical ways to bring healing and greater connection. We consistently hear from attendees that the seminar provided fresh insights, sparked meaningful conversations, and helped couples talk about their sexual relationship with greater understanding, openness, and connection.
THE 8 SESSIONS:
Session 1: Sex the Great Exposer: If sex is so great why is it so hard? (20 minutes)
Session 2: How the Love Styles Affect Sexual Intimacy: Avoider and the Pleaser (43 minutes)
Session 3: How the love Styles Affect Sexual Intimacy: Part A: The Vacillator (30 minutes) andPart B: The Controller and Victim (30 minutes)
Session 4: Part A: Family of Origin Issues (30 minutes) andPart B: Overcoming Cultural Influences on Our Sexuality (37 minutes)
Session 5: Male and Female Sexual Responses and Desire Differences (30 minutes)
Session 6: Moving Towards Better Sex Life (26 minutes)
Session 7: Common Challenges
Session 8: Part A: Holding time (17 minutes) and Part B: Questions from the Audience (36 minutes


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