Love Style Quiz

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A “Love Style” is a kind of emotional injury that influences how you interact with others, especially romantically.
Do you know yours?

Faces representing each of the 5 love stylesOur childhood experiences shape what we expect from relationships, how we receive and express love, and they form the roots of how we respond to others in stressful interactions. The result of all these attachment experiences are actually very predictable because people tend to fall into one of five special categories: called “Love Styles”, or attachment styles.

What is MY Love Style?

This quiz will score you in each of the five Love Style categories, with a high score in any category signaling an injury that needs healing. While most people tend to have one clearly dominant Love Style, it is possible for you to have trouble with multiple areas especially if your childhood was difficult.

Don’t worry, at the end of the quiz we’ll explain your results and provide you with some next steps to begin your healing journey.

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This test is meant to help you discover your primary love style (also called an “attachment style”). Your love style is activated in any relationship but it goes into full bloom around those to whom you are most closely connected.

Your love style is not a personality trait or a temperament. It is a defensive adaptation to a lack of sufficient healthy emotional connection while you were growing up (maybe you experienced relationships that were intrusive or abusive as a child). While these styles were adaptive when you were young, they prevent close and fulfilling relationships as an adult.

An accurate assessment requires honesty and careful self-reflection.

Your ultimate goal is to heal your love style(s) to become a secure connector. Let’s get started on the journey…

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The Love Style Quiz is about much, much more than simply telling you what your primary love style is; it evaluates you in multiple areas and generates a special, private page just for you, including…

  • Personalized results and growth plans, and personalized content recommendations – all uniquely tailored to your specific needs.
  • Access to the Secure Connector Quiz.
  • You’ll be able to revisit previous quiz results and, later, view your personal progress and growth over time.
  • If this is your first time taking this quiz, there’s also very special gift for you at the end, as well!

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