What if we told you your marriage problems began before you got married?

Take our Love Style Quiz to discover how your early life experiences shaped your Love Style and begin working towards powerful and lasting change. 

What if we told you your marriage problems began before you got married?

Take our Love Styles Quiz to discover how your early life experiences shaped your Love Style and begin working towards powerful and lasting change. 

How We Love Library

Read the books that have been used as tools by thousands of people to revisit early life experiences, repair painful patterns, and rebuild healthy and lasting relationships. 

Take the HWL Journey

Rethink

Discover your Love Style and rethink the way your early relational experiences shaped how you respond to others and express love.

Recognize

Become aware of the Core Patterns created as Love Styles combine in relationships and recognize the roots of your relational struggles.

Repair

Use our healing tool, The Comfort Circle, in your key relationships to create bonding and move toward a state of secure attachment.

What's YOUR Love Style?

We created a free questionnaire that is designed to help you identify your unique Love Style, along with growth tips and recommendations tailored specifically to you.

How We Love Growth Stories

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Relational Reconciliation Resources

We long to see the worldwide impact of relational reconciliation, and we believe churches and counselors are on the frontlines, helping families, couples, and individuals find restoration and hope for their relationships. Explore our resources created specifically for you! 

Join us for a live event, or sit on your couch and attend a webinar from your home. The second Thursday of every month we will host a How We Love Gathering to help you on your journey. Each month will be a different topic with time for questions and answers. Start time will be 5:00 PM (PST).

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