Are You Estranged From A Loved One?

Last Sunday was Father’s Day. While many celebrated their fathers, for some it was a painful reminder of a relationship that is strained, absent, or estranged.
More people today find themselves estranged from family because of unresolved conflicts. The truth is most people who estrange themselves from loved ones don’t actually want to be estranged.

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Which Emotional Milestones Are You Missing

Last week I went for my first eye exam in years. My close vision is still pretty good, but I’ve started noticing that reading small text at a distance is getting harder.
The eye doctor told me that’s completely normal. She said everyone’s eyesight changes with age.

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Why People-Pleasing Isn’t Helping Your Relationship

People-Pleasers are some of the nicest people I know. They’re positive, generous, and often a lot of fun. They’ll let you go first, take the bigger portion, and pick where to go and what to do.

Pleasers are experts at finding the path of least resistance. They work hard to keep everyone happy, avoid conflict, and smooth things over. So, isn’t this the type of partner we should all want?

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Are Your Protests Creating More Disconnection?

Over the weekend, my (Amy) uncle passed away.

He loved to have fun, yet he was also intense. He loved his children deeply, but I also know his words and temper hurt them deeply too.

Sitting with my cousin as her father passed, I couldn’t stop thinking about how complicated love can become when emotional wounds go unhealed.

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Why Our Teenagers Trigger Us

Our daughter turned 21 last week. As I reflected on that milestone, I couldn’t help but think about how much she has changed over the last ten years—and how much I have, too.

The journey from preteen to young adulthood has been quite a rollercoaster.

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