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  • Love Styles
    • What are Love Styles?
    • What are Core Patterns?
      • Core Pattern: Avoider + Avoider
      • Core Pattern: Avoider + Pleaser
      • Core Pattern: Avoider + Victim*
      • Core Pattern: Controller + Avoider
      • Core Pattern: Controller + Controller*
      • Core Pattern: Controller + Victim
      • Core Pattern: Pleaser + Controller*
      • Core Pattern: Pleaser + Pleaser
      • Core Pattern: Pleaser + Victim*
      • Core Pattern: Vacillator + Avoider
      • Core Pattern: Vacillator + Controller
      • Core Pattern: Vacillator + Pleaser
      • Core Pattern: Vacillator + Vacillator
      • Core Pattern: Vacillator + Victim*
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