How We Love Sex… Or Don’t Bundle

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What you get in the HWL Sex Bundle:

1. How We Love Sex….or Don’t 6-Hour Workshop video

In this six-hour workshop, we explore the five insecure Love Styles and the common sexual challenges associated with each one. Many of us bare our bodies during sex without ever truly baring our souls. We attempt to experience physical intimacy while still struggling with emotional intimacy. In many cases, we don’t even know how to uncover our souls and be vulnerable with our clothes on. Of all God’s gifts, sexuality has become one of the most distorted, exploited, and misunderstood. We are so saturated with cultural messages about sex that it can be difficult to hold onto God’s perspective and understand His original design and intent for sexual intimacy within marriage.

• • • Session 1: Sex the Great Exposer: If sex is so great, why is it so hard?
    • Session 2: How the Love Styles Affect Sexual Intimacy: Avoider and the Pleaser
    • Session 3: How the Love Styles Affect Sexual Intimacy: Part A: The Vacillator and Part B: The Controller and Victim
    • Session 4: Part A: Family of Origin Issues and Part B: Overcoming Cultural Influences on Our Sexuality
    • Session 5: Male and Female Sexual Responses and Desire Differences
    • Session 6: Moving Towards Better Sex Life
    • Session 7: Common Challenges
    • Session 8: Part A: Holding time and Part B: Questions from the Audience

2. Learning to Reset the World’s Sexual Programming Webinar Video (90 mins)

Over the decades, we’ve heard from thousands of couples who struggle sexually and throw their hands up in desperation. Milan and Kay have lectured extensively on the topic of sex and share the story of their own frustrations and the steps they took to grow into successful sexual fulfillment. Listen in as Milan and Kay get up close and personal.

3. Love Styles and Their Sexual Propensities Webinar Video (90 mins)

Did you know your love style is involved in your sexual expression? Each of the love styles will struggle relationally and emotionally within relationships… including sex. Join us as we explore each style, how sex is affected and how to become more securely connected.

4. Building Trust and Safety in Sexual Relationships Webinar Video (90 mins)

Building and maintaining trust in a relationship is critical to its overall success and satisfaction. What are some of the behaviors and attitudes that destroy trust and what will build trust in a friendship? If trust and safety are low, sex will suffer, and conversely if healing and relational security is built, sex will improve. This important dialogue will guide you in how help avoid mistrust and build trust.

5. Negotiating Desire Differences Webinar Video (90 mins)

Due to hormonal variations between men and women, there are natural differences in sexual frequency desires as well as dissimilar arousal responses. This can create strong tensions within a relationship, including the cessation of sexual activity by one of the spouses. Join us as we share the keys to lessening this tension and working together toward greater sexual fulfillment and enjoyment.

6. Learning to Be Present for a More Satisfying Sex Life Webinar Video (90 mins)

How mentally and relationally present are we during sex? Are we truly aware of our partner’s presence—or do we drift somewhere else in our minds? Some people retreat into private fantasy, others are mentally making their Costco list or planning out the next day, while still others are disconnected waiting for it to be over. Learning to be fully present changes everything. When we are emotionally and mentally engaged, we enter into the reality of our partner’s personhood—their feelings, their value, and the opportunity for genuine connection. Presence allows physical intimacy to become more than an act; it becomes a shared experience of being known, seen, and connected. Learning to be present is a sexual game changer.

7. The Male Stargazer’s Guide to His Wife’s Sexual Galaxy Webinar Video (90 mins)

Looking at marriage difficulties from the perspective of gender differences has become passe. Seventy years of scientific research in the attachment field has made it clear that the attachment or love styles discussed in How We Love are not about gender. All attachment styles react the same way in relationships, whether they are male or female, so men and women are very much alike if they share a common love style.

8. The Male Stargazer’s Guide to His Wife’s Sexual Galaxy eBook

The significant difference between the sexes lies in their hormonal composition. Unless you attended my Life Science class at Montebello High School in the 1970’s, no one really explained these differences and the resulting sexual tension between a husband and wife created by this hormonal mismatch, his and hers (that part I did not discuss with my students). In this eBook, I want to help you understand why sexual struggles exist and how to lower, if not eliminate entirely, the sexual tension and animus that invades many marriages. Come join the field trip to my observatory as we learn to gaze through a new telescope.