Last summer, Amy and I took a trip to England, and I invited her to literally take a walk down my memory lane. We went back to the neighborhood in London where I grew up, which I hadn’t been back to in almost 30 years.
It was a surreal experience.
Last weekend, and over the last couple of weeks, Marc and I have enjoyed spending time and sharing food with neighbors, many of whom are from different countries.
We’ve been taking turns hosting “watch” parties for the World Cup games.
One thing I love is hearing people’s stories.
Last Sunday was Father’s Day. While many celebrated their fathers, for some it was a painful reminder of a relationship that is strained, absent, or estranged.
More people today find themselves estranged from family because of unresolved conflicts. The truth is most people who estrange themselves from loved ones don’t actually want to be estranged.
Last Sunday was Father’s Day. While many celebrated their fathers, for some it was a painful reminder of a relationship that is strained, absent, or estranged.
More people today find themselves estranged from family because of unresolved conflicts. The truth is most people who estrange themselves from loved ones don’t actually want to be estranged.
Last week I went for my first eye exam in years. My close vision is still pretty good, but I’ve started noticing that reading small text at a distance is getting harder.
The eye doctor told me that’s completely normal. She said everyone’s eyesight changes with age.
People-Pleasers are some of the nicest people I know. They’re positive, generous, and often a lot of fun. They’ll let you go first, take the bigger portion, and pick where to go and what to do.
Pleasers are experts at finding the path of least resistance. They work hard to keep everyone happy, avoid conflict, and smooth things over. So, isn’t this the type of partner we should all want?
Most people know I’m a therapist, but you may not know that I’m also a diehard Liverpool Football Club fan (that’s English soccer).
Over the weekend, Liverpool announced they were firing their head coach after only two years.
Over the weekend, my (Amy) uncle passed away.
He loved to have fun, yet he was also intense. He loved his children deeply, but I also know his words and temper hurt them deeply too.
Sitting with my cousin as her father passed, I couldn’t stop thinking about how complicated love can become when emotional wounds go unhealed.
Our daughter turned 21 last week. As I reflected on that milestone, I couldn’t help but think about how much she has changed over the last ten years—and how much I have, too.
The journey from preteen to young adulthood has been quite a rollercoaster.
As a nurse, I (Amy) was first trained to recognize what normal heart rhythms look like so I could identify a dangerous arrhythmia. Because before you can recognize when something is off, you need to know what healthy looks like.
In a similar way, we can learn to recognize our relational rhythms.