Fullerton, California, 92831
Licensed Christian Minister – Evangelical Free Church of America
Certified Attachment Core Pattern Therapy
Certified SYMBIS Assessment Facilitator
Completed Gottman Couples Therapy – Levels 1 & 2
Co-Author of CoupleTalk – a couples communication and conflict resolution workshop
Co-Author of Love for Life – a Christian marriage prep workshop
Board member & CFO for Relationship Research Foundation, Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit
My strengths are in couples relationship counseling, relationship assessment, couples communication, & conflict resolution. My counseling style includes a focus on learning and practicing healthy relationship skills.
I also specialize in premarital preparation, and I often perform weddings.
I am a longtime marriage and relationship educator (I’ve taught on five continents), and I’m a Christian marriage pastor, but I am not a licensed therapist. If issues emerge such as mental illness, addictions, or abuse, I will refer the client to a licensed professional with expertise in the client’s area of need.
So many times when couples are in conflict, they act out in patterns that were unconsciously learned in the family they grew up in, or in previous relationships. Often these patterns are destructive and damaging to the relationship. My role is to identify the cause of the historical damage or deficit, help the client understand why it resulted in these harmful patterns, and teach – and help them practice – new, healthy patterns to replace the harmful ones.