About Milan & Kay

Meet MILAN & KAY

For years, unseen forces governed the ways we loved each other and we didn’t recognize the painful patterns we were stuck in until we revisited our first lessons in love from our families. For the first time, we understood the source of our frustrations and knew there was hope for deep and lasting change in our marriage.

Since then, we have worked towards a more secure bond with each other, developed new patterns of engaging and rebuilt a flourishing marriage. Our prayer is that you will soon discover what we have: the relief that comes from working towards resolution, experiencing deep understanding and knowing comfort.

Married in 1972, Milan and Kay have four children. When they aren’t writing and speaking they enjoy their 10 grandchildren. Milan and Kay enjoy speaking together and have co-authored two books, How We Love, (2006 and Expanded Version, 2018), and How We Love Our Kids (2011).

REV. MILAN YERKOVICH, M.A.

Milan, ordained minister and pastoral counselor, has devoted himself to working with families and couples for over thirty years. Milan holds his masters degree in Biblical Studies and his California teaching credential. He loves teaching the Bible and lecturing on relational theology. He was a pastor for thirteen years, and previously worked as a pastoral counselor with the Center for Individual and Family Therapy. From 2003 to 2020 he was the full-time director of Relationship180, a non-profit organization devoted to counseling individuals and families toward healthy relationships. He also works as a radio co-host at New Life Ministries with Steven Arterburn, a nationwide counseling talk show. In his spare time, Milan enjoys martial arts, biking and playing the guitar.

REV. MILAN YERKOVICH, M.A.

Milan, ordained minister and pastoral counselor, has devoted himself to working with families and couples for over thirty years. Milan holds his masters degree in Biblical Studies and his California teaching credential. He loves teaching the Bible, and lecturing on relational theology. He was a pastor for thirteen years, and previously worked as a pastoral counselor with the Center for Individual and Family Therapy. From 2003 to 2020 he was the full-time director of Relationship180, a non-profit organization devoted to counseling individuals and families toward healthy relationships. He also works as a radio co-host at New Life Ministries with Steven Arterburn, a nationwide counseling talk show. In his spare time, Milan enjoys martial arts, biking and playing the guitar.

KAY YERKOVICH, M.S., M.F.T.

Kay is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She enjoyed her role as a stay at home mom for many years, and completed her master’s degree in Marriage and Family Counseling in 1993. Her specialty is treating couples using attachment theory as the foundation of her work. She is a popular speaker and lecturer in the areas of parenting and marriage relationships. Kay renews herself through watercolor painting and sewing. She is happiest sitting on the beach with a good book and a cup of Starbucks coffee.

KAY YERKOVICH, M.S., M.F.T.

“Milan and Kay have taken their own life experience, their research over the years, and their experience in the counseling office, and distilled it into the work that is rigorous, original, and understandable. If you want to strengthen and enrich your marriage, as well as grow personally, I strongly encourage you to read and digest this material. The effect on all your relationships will be powerful.”

– Dr. Jim Masteller

Executive director of the Center for Individual and Family Therapy