Parenting Bundle

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What you get in the Parenting Bundle:

1. How We Love Our Kids Workshop (Petra Church 2025)

Parenting is a challenge, and kids don’t come with a manual. For most parents, it’s on-the-job training with whatever lessons you got from your parents guiding you as you stumble along. Eighty years of attachment research shows there is a way bond securely, and it starts with understanding how our own childhood home has shaped how we parent. This six-hour workshop gives an in-depth look at the parenting, propensities, and challenges of each Love Style as parents and children, and how each one might grow towards becoming securely attached. Included are sessions on sex education during each stage of childhood development, along with lessons on how to discipline your child in love to build character and promote healthy emotional development.

Your purchase includes:

• Syllabus (PDF)
• 9 Video sessions
  • • Session 1: What determines how we parent
    • Session 2: Child development & the Avoider parent
    • Session 3: Love styles as parents (the Pleaser parent and the Vacillator parent)
    • Session 4: Love styles as parents (the Controller & Victim Parent and the Secure Parent)
    • Session 5: Helping your children (the Avoider child and the Vacillator child)
    • Session 6: Helping your children (the Pleaser child and the Controller & Victim child)
    • Session 7: Educating your child about sex
    • Session 8: Disciplining your child
    • Session 9: Creating secure connections using the Comfort Circle

2. Parenting Your Adult Kids Audio Download

You’ll still be known as mom and dad when your children become adults—but your role needs to change. How do you stay connected without overstepping, give advice without controlling, and maintain a healthy relationship when your adult son or daughter makes choices you may not agree with? This audio will help you navigate the transition from parenting a child to relating to an adult son or daughter while building a relationship based on respect, connection, and healthy boundaries.

3. Teaching Your Children About Sex Audio Download

Talking with your children about sex can feel uncomfortable, but avoiding the conversation leaves someone else to shape their understanding. This audio will help you approach conversations about sexuality with greater confidence and intentionality. Learn how to create an environment where your children can ask questions, talk openly, and develop a healthy understanding of sex, relationships, boundaries, and intimacy.

4. Parenting Your Adult Sons and Daughters Webinar Video (90 mins)

When your children become adults, the parent-child relationship enters an entirely new season. Old parenting strategies can create conflict when adult children are looking for independence, while parents may struggle to know when to speak up and when to step back. In this webinar, we explore healthy boundaries, expectations, communication, and how to stay emotionally connected with your adult sons and daughters without trying to manage their lives.

5. The Avoider Parent and the Avoider Child Webinar Video (90 mins)

Avoiders learn early to minimize needs and emotions and become highly self-reliant. When either a parent or child has an Avoider Love Style, emotional connection can easily take a back seat to tasks, independence, and getting things done. This webinar explores how the Avoider style shows up in parenting and in children, the challenges it can create between parents and children, and practical ways to build greater emotional awareness, connection, and security.

6. The Pleaser Parent and the Pleaser Child Webinar Video (90 mins)

Pleasers are highly attuned to the moods and reactions of others and often work hard to keep relationships peaceful. But what does the Pleaser Love Style look like in a parent—and how might you recognize it in a child? In this webinar, we explore Pleaser traits in both parents and children, including anxiety, conflict avoidance, difficulty with boundaries, and taking responsibility for other people’s emotions. Learn how to help both parents and children develop greater confidence, healthy boundaries, and more secure connection.

7. The Vacillator Parent and the Vacillator Child Webinar Video (90 mins)

Vacillators deeply desire connection but can become disappointed, frustrated, or angry when relationships don’t meet their expectations. In parenting, these sensitivities can create emotional intensity, misunderstandings, and cycles of pursuit and withdrawal. This webinar explores how the Vacillator Love Style affects both parents and children and offers practical tools for managing expectations, regulating strong emotions, and creating more consistent and secure connection.

8. The Controller/Victim Parent and Child Webinar Video (90 mins)

Controller and Victim Love Styles often develop in response to chaotic, painful, frightening, or abusive childhood environments. In this webinar, we explore how to recognize Controller and Victim traits in both parents and children, how these patterns develop, and how they affect emotions, behavior, boundaries, and family relationships. We also address some of the unique challenges foster and adoptive parents may face when caring for a child who comes from a chaotic, neglectful, or abusive home and whose survival strategies can make connection and trust especially difficult. Learn how to better understand the behaviors beneath these patterns and help children move toward greater safety, trust, connection, and security.