Lectures
This page includes ALL of the lectures from both our Love Style Lecture Series and our Anger Mangement Lecture Series.
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Attachment Core Pattern Therapy
$199.00Add to cartA six hour DVD training for therapist, pastors and lay counselors about Attachment Core Pattern Therapy. This approach utilizes the concepts in How We Love for couples’ therapy. Included is an extensive syllabus that includes client handouts. (See product details for more information).
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The Love Styles – Complete Lecture Series (Audio Download)
$54.99Add to cartThis audio download gives an amazing overview of all the love styles including the secure connector, core pattern combinations, and the comfort circle. It will give you new insights into all your relationships; family, friends, and work. Download the entire Love Styles lecture series! This series contains 9 MP3
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The Love Styles – Complete Lecture Series (Audio CD)
$51.96Add to cartIn each of these five 50-70 minute audio lectures, Milan and Kay go beyond the material in “How We Love” and explore in-depth profiles of the Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, Controller and the Victim. Included are parenting tendencies and and sexual propensities for each style. The CD on the secure connector clarifies the growth goals.
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Intro to Core Patterns (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartIt’s complicated enough just looking after yourself, so what happens when you’re in a relationship?In this lecture, Milan and Kay address what happens when people’s love-styles interact and collide, explaining the predictable core-patterns that result from various combinations. Then you will be equipped with helpful growth-goals to take your relationships to the next level.
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Launching and Dealing with Adult Children (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartBeing an empty-nester isn’t always as easy as it’s cut out to be, and maybe you’re wondering how do I launch my kids. In some way, each love-style struggles with the process of “launching” their kids. This lecture explores the characteristics of adult to adult relationships with your children, and discusses the value of exploring and owning the regrets and mistakes you’ve accumulated from parenting them.
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Learning to Engage (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartEver feel like you’re stumbling around in the dark when it comes to important conversations with your loved ones? This lecture discusses what each love style must learn to successfully navigate the tricky talks we encounter. And remember the Comfort Circle? Milan and Kay provide an unrehearsed demonstration so you can experience the way it works so you can successfully navigate the tricky talks we encounter.
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Self Awareness (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartSelf-awareness is one of the most vital traits to successful relationships. Why is it important and how can you improve your self awareness? In this lecture, Milan and Kay describe how each love styles struggles with self-awareness and how to grow in this important skill.
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The Avoider (Audio CD)
$12.99Add to cartIn this 60 minute CD , Milan and Kay go beyond the material in “How We Love” and explore an in-depth profile of the Avoider. Who are they? Where do they struggle? What do they value? How do they parent? What are their sexual propensities? This is the most information we have anywhere on the avoider.
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The Avoider (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartFeeling disconnected from those you love the most? In this 60 minute talk, Milan and Kay go beyond the material in “How We Love” and explore an in-depth profile of the Avoider Love Style. Parenting tendencies of the Avoider as well as sexual propensities with their spouse are also discussed.
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The Controller & The Victim (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartAre your current relationships as tumultuous as your childhood experiences? In this 60 minute talk, Milan and Kay go beyond the material in “How We Love” and explore an in-depth profile of the Controller and Victim Love Style. Break the cycle of trauma and abuse by understanding the truth about your past, and learning how to change your future. With the right help and support, a healthy tomorrow is in reach.
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The Controller and The Victim (Audio CD)
$12.99Add to cartAre your current relationships as tumultuous as your childhood experiences? In this 60 minute talk, Milan and Kay go beyond the material in “How We Love” and explore an in-depth profile of the Controller and Victim Love Styles. Parenting tendencies with kids and sexual propensities with their spouse are also explored.
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The Love Styles – Comfort Circle (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartthis audio, you will learn “The Comfort Circle,” Milan and Kay’s tool for helping couples communicate in a meaningful, intimate way. We all have a deep need for connection that often feels unmet. Not only will you learn about “The Comfort Circle”, you will grow familiar with the four points of the comfort circle, gaining the tools you need to have better connection with your loved ones.
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The Pleaser (Audio CD)
$12.99Add to cartDo you keep your opinions to yourself to stay close to others? Are you anxious when someone is upset with you? In this 60 minute talk, Milan & Kay go beyond the materials presented in “How We Love” and take an in-depth look at the “Pleaser” love style. This CD also explores the parenting tendencies of the Pleaser and their propensities in a sexual relationship with their spouse.
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The Pleaser (Audio Download)
$7.99Add to cartDo you keep your opinions to yourself to stay close to others? Are you constantly trying monitor the moods of others to keep them happy? In this 60 minute talk, Milan & Kay go beyond the materials presented in “How We Love” and take an in-depth look at the “Pleaser” love style including parenting tendencies and the sexual propensities of the pleaser.
