Helping the couple bring awareness of their attachment style. This is a process of gaining awareness because of the vulnerability that is being shared between the two people. Bringing the hidden part of self into the space that is learning how to feel safe and secure within the relationship. The couple is learning how to trust one another, gain awareness of self and other, and learning how to show compassion. After practicing this skill, the couple can learn how to be a little more vulnerable in the presence of feeling safe, secure, and welcomed. Communication in the verbal and nonverbal will help create more of this space.