How We Love Workshop

• For singles desiring better friendships and connections or who are contemplating marriage.
• For married couples who wish to feel greater levels of emotional and sexual closeness.
• For married people hoping to learn some reasons for their current marriage struggles.
• For divorced or separated persons seeking to understand where things may have gone wrong.
• For parents desiring to learn ways to lessen conflict and get closer to their children and teens.

Overview of this six hour seminar:

• Why Every Marriage Gets Stuck
• The Revealing Question You Need to Answer
• Imprints of Intimacy from Our First Lessons in Love
• Ideal Love Lessons: The Secure Connector

• The Avoider Love Style
• The Pleaser Love Style
• The Vacillator Love Style
• The Chaotic (Controller and Victim) Love Styles
• Identifying Your Love Style

• What happen when the Avoider relates to the Pleaser?
• The Avoider relates to the Vacillator?
• The Vacillator relates to the Pleaser?
• The Controller relates to the Victim?
• As common combinations are discussed couples are surprised to discover how much their marriage problems resemble other couples. This discovery offers feelings of hope.

• The Comfort Circle
• Seek Awareness
• Engage, Explore, Resolve
• Seeing into Your Spouse’s Soul: Milan and Kay work with a couple live on stage.

• Milan and Kay demonstrate a holding time and explain how this practice changed their marriage.