Why Is Satisfying Sex So Difficult to Achieve and Maintain? – July 2023


Over the decades, we’ve heard from thousands of couples who struggle sexually and throw their hands up in desperation. Kay and I have lectured extensively on the topic of sex and share the story of our own frustrations and the steps we took to grow into successful sexual fulfillment. Come join us as we get up close and personal. Send any sexual questions you would like answered by filling out our Contact Us form.

Join us July 6th at 5:00pm PT as we go over Why Is Satisfying Sex So Difficult to Achieve and Maintain. Even if you can’t make the live webinar, you’ll get access to the recording in your HWL account within 48 hours.

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The Pleaser / Vacillator Core Pattern
Thursday June 1, 2023 at 5:00pm PT

A core pattern is the reactive cycle a couple falls into when each of their attachment styles gets provoked or triggered. As the core pattern progresses, emotions and reactive behaviors escalate, and as they do, more and more damage is done to each other and to the marriage. Both persons in the relationship believes the other person is to blame and sadly if nothing changes divorce ensues or an intact marriage deteriorates into an ugly state of co-existence. The core pattern is the true enemy NOT your spouse. 

Our Love Styles (attachment styles) were formed within our brains very early in our development. This is why we don’t remember the lengthy process that shaped how we feel and react within relationships. Attachment Core Pattern Therapy helps a couple understand how they were each imprinted with a different style, the way the combination reacts, and how to slow down the pattern and begin to heal toward Secure Attachment which is less reactive.

Stated simply, your marriage problems started way before you ever met one another. A marriage then can be described as two colliding histories. With little to no understanding, the couple is helpless to change. Come join us as we share the three most common core patterns, and how to begin the journey of growth to escape the core pattern’s grip.