How To Know If You Are Growing (MP3 Download)

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How do you know if you are making progress defeating your core pattern? This one hour download provides a broad overview of what growth looks like and walks you through a bird”s eye view of the stages of growth out of these destructive core patterns.

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How do you know if you are making progress defeating your core pattern? This one hour download provides a broad overview of the Core Patterns series, and  walks you through a bird”s eye view of the stages of growth out of these destructive core patterns.

Attachment Core Pattern Therapy™ is a framework for couples’ therapy that focuses on how the attachment styles of each spouse collide in marriage creating a problematic Core Pattern that blocks connection and hinders communication.
Attachment styles (“love styles” How We Love 2006) are the result of successful or unsuccessful bonding and attachment experiences in our family of origin. Positive experiences create a Secure Attachment and less successful experiences result in the wounded attachment styles of Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, Controller and Victim.

When two of these problematic love styles collide in adult romantic relationship couples are unwittingly re-creating a primary attachment relationship similar to their family of origin. Eventually, when the facades begin to disappear and conflict ensues, a core pattern of reactivity begins to form which becomes a repetitive fight or way of interacting that repeats over and over. These core patterns are unexplored, automatic, predictable and as so far as the couple goes, involuntary. Interventions are targeted at helping each person see their part of the destructive dance and using a comfort circle to create a new successful pattern of relating.

We prefer to see couples together (not individually) as these reactive patterns are best observed when couples are interacting and regulation is best learned within the primary attachment relationship.

Each lecture in the series comes with a downloadable PDF, which includes a graph of the Core Pattern and all applicable interventions.

If you are interested in the complete series, this MP3 is also included as part of the Attachment Core Pattern Therapy – Complete Series set.

This CD is also available as an audio download!

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This product includes the following downloads...

  • Core Patterns: Overview (MP3)
  • Core Patterns: Overview (PDF)