What if we told you your marriage problems began before you got married?
Take our Love Style Quiz to discover how your early life experiences shaped your Love Style and begin working towards powerful and lasting change.
How We Love Library
Read the books that have been used as tools by thousands of people to revisit early life experiences, repair painful patterns, and rebuild healthy and lasting relationships.
Take the
How We Love
Journey
Step 1
Discover your Love Style and rethink the way your early relational experiences shaped how you respond to others and express love.
Step 2
Become aware of the Core Patterns created as Love Styles combine in relationships and recognize the roots of your relational struggles.
Step 3
Use our healing tool, The Comfort Circle, in your key relationships to create bonding and move toward a state of secure attachment.
Meet Milan and Kay
For years, unseen forces governed the ways we loved each other and we didn’t recognize the painful patterns we were stuck in until we revisited our first lessons in love from our families. For the first time, we understood the source of our frustrations and knew there was hope for deep and lasting change in our marriage.
Since then, we have worked towards a more secure bond with each other, developed new patterns of engaging and rebuilt a flourishing marriage. Our prayer is that you will soon discover what we have: the relief that comes from working towards resolution, experiencing deep understanding and knowing comfort.
Meet Marc and Amy
We married in 2012 after a three-month whirlwind introduction and engagement each believing we had found our soulmate. However, once married real life set in and our whirlwind romance turned into two hurricanes colliding as we soon realized we were more alike than we realized when it came to conflict! Both being imprinted in childhood with a vacillator love style, neither of us found it easy to wait our turn and we both struggled with feeling deeply disappointed in the other, misunderstood, and protesting to get the other to see our hurt and respond.
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“When we know our attachment style, we are able to connect, grow, and increase the quality of our relationships. Milan and Kay Yerkovich have done a great job of providing the steps.”
Founder, the Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling at Concordia University, Irvine
What's YOUR Love Style?
We created a free questionnaire that is designed to help you identify your unique Love Style, along with growth tips and recommendations tailored specifically to you.