Carol: “So what bugs you the most about me?” Michael: “When you ask me a lot of questions and make me come up with answers to explain myself or try to describe my feelings inside.” Carol: “How often does this happen?” Michael: “Just about every time you look at me with ‘that look’ and your tone […]
We learned last week that Carol was “triggering” an old place of injury inside Michael’s soul. A trigger is a present day behavior that somehow taps into a place of pain from the past. Done innocently enough, Carol’s mere questioning of Michael in an irritated tone was enough to take Michael back into his frozen childhood […]
This week we will talk about core patterns and how we can begin to heal these present day conflicts as well as begin the healing process for the old wounds (“pain”) that form the triggers. As I said in last week’s newsletter, “Every couple that comes into my office is getting triggered by the other spouse. […]
This week we will continue to talk about core patterns and how we can begin to heal these present day conflicts as well as begin the healing process for the old wounds (“pain”) that form the triggers. We discussed healing steps 1 and 2 in the last two newsletters. Step 1: Recognize and own your part in the core […]
This week we will continue to talk about core patterns and how we can begin to heal these present day conflicts as well as begin the healing process for the old wounds (“pain”) that form the triggers. As I said in last week’s newsletter, “Every couple that comes into my office is getting triggered by the […]