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Blog Series: relationships

Giving and Receiving – Vacillators

Posted on February 3, 2011

Vacillators are sensitive individuals who got inconsistent connection as kids. They got enough connection to know they liked it and wanted more. Preoccupied, busy parents kept the longing on high, which is the source of a vacillators core issue….wanting connection having to wait for it, feeling like it’s on others terms and getting angry about  not […]

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Rupture and Repair

Posted on April 14, 2011

After reading last weeks newsletter, did you write your list of what each parent did that ruptured relationship with you? Did you write how it made you feel? If so you are ready for the next step. Let’s think about your love lessons about repair.  Repair: To restore something broken or damaged to good condition.  To […]

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Relational Theology

Posted on November 10, 2011

As we each come into our own individual adult awareness, we are often unaware of the powerful forces that exert influence over us which in turn throws us into a crisis of sorts. Simply stated, life doesn’t feel right… it’s not the way we think it should be. Life should be more fulfilling, frustrations should be […]

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