Favorite Defenses – The Avoider
Posted on November 5, 2009
Let’s start with Avoiders. What are the most common defenses of Avoiders? It took me into my late thirties to really become aware of my defenses and even longer to learn to set them aside. Minimizing/ Denial: You completely reject the thought or feeling. “I’m not angry with him!” (Defenses can even sound Christian) “I don’t care what anyone […]
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