Blog Series: Lies

Lies embedded in the Love Styles – The Avoider

What lies do avoiders believe without much awareness of their existence?  Let’s focus  on the biggest; avoiders deem neediness as weak and pathetic.  We avoiders enter adulthood thinking independence and self sufficiency are highly valued traits and emotionally needy people are fragile and pathetic. While self-determination and self-sufficiency are sometimes useful and good, independence needs to be balanced with dependence […]

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