The TOP 5 Problems We Hear On the Radio… and what to do about them. Part 2 of 5 So you think that you are unique and that your problems are special? That your life or relationship stresses are known only to you and that somehow your case requires special advice or care? No, your […]
Carol: “So what bugs you the most about me?” Michael: “When you ask me a lot of questions and make me come up with answers to explain myself or try to describe my feelings inside.” Carol: “How often does this happen?” Michael: “Just about every time you look at me with ‘that look’ and your tone […]
We learned last week that Carol was “triggering” an old place of injury inside Michael’s soul. A trigger is a present day behavior that somehow taps into a place of pain from the past. Done innocently enough, Carol’s mere questioning of Michael in an irritated tone was enough to take Michael back into his frozen childhood […]
This week we will continue to talk about core patterns and how we can begin to heal these present day conflicts as well as begin the healing process for the old wounds (“pain”) that form the triggers. As I said in last week’s newsletter, “Every couple that comes into my office is getting triggered by the […]
God is really into hearing our prayers. So much so, we are commanded to pray over and over throughout the scriptures. When you look at the two to three key Greek words that we translate into the English word prayer, they really mean to ask. This old English word and its meaning are very familiar to […]
Hello every one! Perhaps you’ve been wondering why there has been less blog activity over the last few months? It’s because we’ve been writing and recording new material since last winter which I am excited to introduce to you today! When two differing attachment styles come together in a romantic relationship, things can be wonderful […]