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Blog Series: compassion

Our Prayer for you – Compassion

Posted on October 28, 2010

What else are Milan and I praying for you? “Lord, give us each wisdom and insights to love our mates more deeply and with more compassion as we become aware of their wounds” Milan and I have a saying…. “You should have a Ph. D. in your spouse’s childhood.  How can you achieve this?  Study your spouse.  Ask questions about their […]

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The Secure Connector 20 – Compassion

Posted on January 21, 2013

Trait: I have compassion for my spouse in their areas of weakness because I understand their childhood wounds that contributed to those areas of struggle. Last week we looked at Shirley and her difficulty with holding on to resentment and inability to forgive her spouse. I listed several things that Shirley needed to do to […]

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