An Overview of Boundaries Let’s begin by reviewing what boundaries are all about. Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written extensively on the topic of boundaries. The following overview is taken from the book by Cloud, Changes that Heal. He devotes a chapter on boundaries. HEALTHY BONDING WITH BOUNDARIES: Boundaries are the ability to maintain one’s […]
Avoiders and Boundaries Let’s begin by reviewing what boundaries are all about. Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written extensively on the topic of boundaries. The following overview is taken from the book by Cloud, Changes that Heal. He devotes a chapter on boundaries. HEALTHY BONDING WITH BOUNDARIES: Boundaries are the ability to maintain one’s own […]
Pleasers and Boundaries Let’s begin by reviewing what boundaries are all about. Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written extensively on the topic of boundaries. The following overview is taken from the book by Cloud, Changes that Heal. He devotes a chapter on boundaries. HEALTHY BONDING WITH BOUNDARIES: Boundaries are the ability to maintain one’s own […]
Vacillators and Boundaries Let’s begin by reviewing what boundaries are all about. Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written extensively on the topic of boundaries. The following overview is taken from the book by Cloud, Changes that Heal. He devotes a chapter on boundaries. HEALTHY BONDING WITH BOUNDARIES: Boundaries are the ability to maintain one’s own […]
Love Styles and Boundaries Controllers and Victims and Boundaries Let’s begin by reviewing what boundaries are all about. Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written extensively on the topic of boundaries. The following overview is taken from the book by Cloud, Changes that Heal. He devotes a chapter on boundaries. HEALTHY BONDING WITH BOUNDARIES: Boundaries are […]
Trait: I can say no and draw boundaries even when it makes someone mad. This one is very hard for Pleasers and Victims. Because of fear, Pleasers and Victims freeze when intimidated or threatened. This can vary from mild to severe and in the most extreme cases, their brains and bodies will lock up […]
Before we continue, here is point #3 about being an adult around your parents during the holidays: 3. You can set boundaries and say “No,” to your parents even if you get a poor response. Let’s begin by reviewing what boundaries are all about. Henry Cloud and John Townsend have written extensively on the topic […]