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Blog Series: apologies

Markers of Humility: Can You Apologize – Pleasers and Avoiders

Posted on January 14, 2010

I wasn’t kidding.  Email me if you asked the question and let me know how it went.  I want to think someone out there in reader land doesn’t just read these and delete, but really takes God’s words to heart. Here is test number two.  Can you apologize?  Is it sincere or is it just a word, “Sorry”  to get someone off your back?  Can you […]

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Markers of Humility: Can You Apologize – Vacillators and Controllers/Victims

Posted on January 28, 2010

Back to the subject of humility and apologies.  We have looked at the avoider and pleaser in terms of their difficulties with apologies and what they need to apologize for.  Now let’s turn our attention to the Vacillator and Controller/Victim love  styles. Vacillators:  Vacillators have a very difficult time with apologies because to own their own part in the problematic […]

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