Hi, Here are some upcoming events in California that we wanted to let you know about! October 1. 2016 How We Love Workshop The Journey Christian Church 4849 Alton Prky. Irvine, CA 92604 Saturday: 9:00am – 4:00pm For more information or to register for this event, please click here. October 7-8, 2016 How We Love […]
Therapist Continuing Education Seminar “Attachment Theory” Early Registration Pricing Ends July 15, 2016 Please register today! Hello All, Kay and I are teaching our six-hour therapist workshop on July 29, 2016 in Mission Viejo, CA and we wanted you to know about it! Here is what it’s all about: • This course equips Psychologists, MFTs, […]
Focus on the Family Broadcast We are excited to announce that Milan and Kay will have a two day Focus on the Family broadcast titled, “Discovering Your Love Style”. It is scheduled to air Thursday, July 7, and Friday, July 8, 2016. Please note, however, the air schedule is subject to change. On the scheduled […]
Therapist Training Mission Viejo, CA Therapist Continuing Education: “Working with Couples Using Attachment Theory” with Milan and Kay Yerkovich: Friday, July 29, 2016 6 CE Credits This six hour course equips Psychologists, Marriage and Family Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Interns and students to utilize Attachment Theory as a framework for couples’ therapy. Presenting issues […]
Hi, We are pleased to announce that you can now get the following versions of the How We Love book on our website: Audio CD Version: This is the How We Love book narrated onto CDs. For those of you who don’t like to read or don’t have the time and would like to listen […]
Mercy in Your Marriage Seminar with Milan and Kay Yerkovich Do you want to improve your family and work relationships? Are you wasting time in needless conflict? Do you find yourself overreacting to stress at work and in your home? Do you feel like your kids are constantly pushing your buttons? We all have relationship […]
Holding Time: Exercise #4 Holder: Hold your spouse until you are both relaxed and your breathing is in sync. Ask your spouse to share a difficult childhood memory. (Avoiders: this may be more about what you missed than a traumatic event). Ask your spouse to share three feelings about this memory. Don’t fix or problem […]
Holding Time: Exercise # 3 Holder: Hold your spouse until you are both relaxed and your breathing is in sync. Ask your spouse to describe a current stressor. Ask them to pick three words off the list of Soul Words to describe how that stressor makes them feel. Listen and empathize. Don’t fix or problem […]
Holding Time: Exercise #2 Favorite Memories Holder: Hold your spouse until you are both relaxed and your breathing is in sync. Then make eye contact by asking your spouse to look into your eyes. Share a positive, special memory with your spouse that has meaning for you. Be aware and try to communicate as much […]
Holding Time Part 4 Here are some specific ways to try a holding. Our advice is to make a clear distinction between holding and sex. We all need nurturing, comforting touch that isn’t sexual. Learn to communicate directly as a couple and make it clear when you want to give or receive touch that is […]