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COMFORT, NURTURE, and CAREGIVING

COMFORT, NURTURE, and CAREGIVING Fourth in a four part series This information about love styles and their struggle to be adequate caregivers is new material, and recently been added to our How We Love Sexually seminar. Hopefully, it will also be a part of the new book we will be writing soon by the same title. For […]

COMFORT, NURTURE, and CAREGIVING

COMFORT, NURTURE, and CAREGIVING Third in a four part series This information about love styles and their struggle to be adequate caregivers is new material, and has been recently added to our How We Love Sexually seminar. Hopefully, it will also be a part of the new book we will be writing soon by the same title. […]

COMFORT, NURTURE, and CAREGIVING

COMFORT, NURTURE, and CAREGIVING First in a four part series Thought Question: “What are my childhood and adolescent memories of being comforted when I was in emotional pain?” For 20-30% of us, we may have warm memories of being “known” deeply by a parent. Parents who “got us” and had a deep understanding of what made […]

Emotionally Healthy Spiritually

It isn’t often that I will spend three weeks encouraging you to buy a book and read it, but THIS one is worth it. Every once in a while we come across a “MUST READ ” book. For the last three weeks we have talked about the must read: Emotionally Healthy Spiritually by Pete Scazzero. Have you reached […]

Emotionally Healthy Spiritually

It isn’t often that I will spend three weeks encouraging you to buy a book and read it, but THIS one is worth it. Every once in a while we come across a “MUST READ ” book. For the last three weeks we have talked about the must read: Emotionally Healthy Spiritually by Pete Scazzero. Have you reached […]

Emotionally Healthy Spiritually

Every once in a while we come across a “MUST READ ” book. Last week we talked about the must read: Emotionally Healthy Spiritually by Pete Scazzero. Let me ask you a question. Could you recognize emotionally unhealthy spiritually in yourself? Could you make a list of what traits would indicate spiritual growth that  embraces, produces and supports emotional health? […]

Emotionally Healthy Spiritually

Every once in a while we come across a “MUST READ ” book. The next few weeks I am going to encourage you to read Emotionally Healthy Spiritually by Pete Scarzzero. You will find a link to this book below. Let me share why I think this book is IMPORTANT for you to read. In our book, How We Love, […]

Question from our readers:

Question from our readers: I believe I am a vacillator/avoider. Is this a possible combination and does that cause more conflict in me because of it? This is a good question. Vacillators may feel like avoiders when they are angry and want to retreat and withdraw. Both vacillators and avoiders may withdraw, but for very […]

Anxiety, Depression and Addictions

The TOP 5 Problems We Hear On the Radio… and what to do about them. Part 4 of 5 So you think that you are unique and that your problems are special?  That your life or relationship stresses are known only to you and that somehow your case requires special advice or care?  No, your […]