How We Love Sex…or Don’t Here is Where You are Headed… THE SECURE CONNECTOR: These individuals endorse romantic, affectionate sexual behaviors and are more likely to engage their partner to deepen their bond by pleasuring one another. Secure individuals are more likely to seek and value intimacy and have sex for these reasons. Since secure […]
Here is a great reminder from a blog Kay wrote last year on how to handle the Holidays! Here is a good rule when you are going to be around difficult relatives. Predict what will happen. You know them well. Talk with your spouse or kids (if they are old enough) about what you predict. […]
We are excited to announce that the New Updated 2013 Love Style Audio Lectures are now available in both CD and audio download format. Hear Milan and Kay discuss each Love Style in depth as well as how each style presents in relationships. Milan and Kay also go over growth goals and strategies for each […]
Traits of the Secure Connector: Asking for Redo’s. Well we have been in a long but important series on all the traits of the secure connector. These can serve as goals no matter what love style you are. Today we write on a very important topic that we hope will become common place in your […]
Trait: I don’t have secrets I am keeping from my mate. Some of the most relationally destructive stories I’ve heard as a marriage counselor have been when a husband or wife inadvertently discovers secrets that have been hidden by their spouse. Just to name a few… • Secret bank accounts and credit cards. • Another […]
Trait: I have a relationship with God as well as close friends and don’t expect my spouse to meet every need. As a couple’s counselor, one my tasks is to dispel the myths and fantasies about romance that have permeated the people’s thinking. When Josh & Karen came into my office, their marriage was in […]
Trait: I have compassion for my spouse in their areas of weakness because I understand their childhood wounds that contributed to those areas of struggle. Last week we looked at Shirley and her difficulty with holding on to resentment and inability to forgive her spouse. I listed several things that Shirley needed to do to […]
Hi, We have decided to do something new an different for these last two weeks leading up to Christmas. Starting next Monday 12/17, we will send out a daily Tweet giving one of the Love Styles a practical tip to help with the relational struggles that can be associated with the Holidays. SO… if you want to […]
Traits of a Secure Connector: I am not afraid of conflict because I have skills to discuss, compromise and most often resolve conflict. What was conflict like in your home growing up? Loud? Chaotic? A free-for-all? Non-existent? Did you observe repairs after something went wrong? Conflict is a part of life and the Bible is […]
Special Announcement: Relationship 180 wil lhold its annual Fall Celebration and Fundraiser on Saturday, November 3rd at Arroyo Trabuco Golf Club. We would love to have you join us! For more informaiton, and to RSVP, please go to Relationship180.com. Milan and Kay are in Dallas this weekend speaking at a New Life marriage weekend. Please […]