Growing into maturity toward adulthood is challenging and uncomfortable. I love the following two quotes as they seem to describe the process well: “If there is a way to ‘better’, it extracts a full look at the worst.” (Irvin Yalom) “In order to arrive at what you are not, you must go through the way […]
New How We Love groups are starting over the coming days in three Bay Area groups. The three groups are in San Francisco, Burlingame, and Castro Valley. A link to get info on all of them is: www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/find-a-group
So, what is maturity? What does it mean to be an adult? While there are many possible definitions, here is a unique thought to consider. An adult is a person who can look at pain or difficulty and instead of turning away or distracting themselves, they can make choices to respond appropriately. Case in point, […]
Growth and Maturity The catchy jingle “I don’t want to grow up, I’m a Toys R Us Kid!” strikes a chord in each of us. I believe there is a kid within all of us that resists the steady march toward adulthood and the myriad of responsibilities it brings. While being playful and having fun […]
“Growth and Maturity” Dear How We Love friends and family, we apologize for being “dark” for a season. Some of you have asked “Where did they go?” “What happened to the blog entries?” We found ourselves shutting down for a period of reevaluation and assessment. Periodically Kay and I need to stop and ask ourselves […]
How We Love Orange County Event Milan and Kay Yerkovich Sunday April 15, 2018 When Attachment Histories Collide: Understanding and changing reactive core patterns in marriage therapy Join Milan and Kay Yerkovich for a free, 70-minute special presentation this Sunday in Fullerton, CA at EvFree Church. This discussion gives an overview of the use of […]
Milan and Kay’s Focus on the Family Broadcast will air today!! Focus on the Family Broadcast: Developing a Deeper Connection With Your Spouse I & II You can listen to the broadcast here!
Hi, We are sorry it has been so long since we have had a blog!! Please check out this article we wrote for Focus on the Family! You can find it by clicking here! We also got the opportunity to broadcast another radio program for Focus on the Family in January. We will keep you […]
How We Love for Singles Love Style Quiz for Singles We have had so many requests from singles for products that meet their needs. Finally, it’s happening! Go to Howwelove.com and check out the new love style quiz. It now has a question about your relationship status before you take the quiz. Singles can select […]
“Self, Other, We.” Part 6: The Controller I was standing in Costco minding my own business looking at the surf boards and paddle boards at the summer kiosk. From a distance I heard a voice say “Aren’t you a little too old to be looking at those? I looked in the direction of the voice […]