NEW: Therapist Training Series on DVD!

We are SO excited to announce that we have a new product specifically designed for Therapists, Counselors and other lay people who want to learn Milan and Kay’s approach to using Attachment Theory in a counseling setting.

Most couples can describe their core pattern; a repetitive, reactive interchange that happens over and over. Many therapists try to modify the symptoms and complaints generated by this frustrating dance without understanding and addressing the roots. These tenacious cycles are created as each spouse’s attachment injuries collide in marriage. In our approach (Attachment Core Pattern Therapy) we help couples define the attachment wounds that drive the cycle and recognize the source of their reactivity. We help couples recognize the core pattern as the enemy, not each other. Breaking out of the core pattern and moving toward secure connection is the goal of ACPT Couples Therapy. Singles, divorcees, and individuals can identify their attachment style, deepen their self-awareness and understand why others react in predictable ways.

This 6 hour course includes:

  • Two DVD’s and 93 power point slides.
  • Syllabus 100 pages including
  • Six Attachment Styles
  • Explanations of the most common core patterns
  • Therapist and client friendly diagrams to identify attachment styles and core patterns
  • Evaluations
  • Handouts you can copy and give to couples.
  • A copy of the Vacillator/Avoider Core Pattern.
    This is one of the most common core patterns of couples seeking therapy and the file contains a diagram of the core pattern and a full description of this interaction with interventions and growth goals

For more information, including and an introductory video from Milan and Kay, please click here.

Also, please join us for our annual Therapist Training in Orange County, CA on July 28th, 2017. For more information, or to register for this event, please click here.

Upcoming Event!

Hi everyone,

We are reaching out to let you know that Milan and Kay will be doing a How We Love workshop in North Carolina this weekend. For all of the event details, please click here.

We would love to see you there!

Also, we are introducing a new Core Pattern CD to add to existing ones. The Controller-Avoider CD is now available on the website. You can get it here!

We will have new blogs from Milan and Kay coming very soon. We appreciate all of you and your support.

No More Perfect Marriages

Hey everyone…we are excited for our friends, Jill and Mark Savage, who just wrote a book No More Perfect Marriages.

Mark and Jill’s marriage was in a black hole. A separation, an affair and years of a frustrating core pattern they didn’t understand almost destroyed their marriage. They share our hearts, vision and desire to see Christian marriages thrive. Mark and Jill have worked hard to build a marriage that is deep, rich and satisfying when it seemed their marriage was beyond hope. Take the four week challenge and see what you can learn!

Click here to take the challenge!

How We Love Couples’ Retreat with Milan & Kay Yerkovich

How We Love Couples’ Retreat with Milan & Kay Yerkovich

Located at the beautiful Monarch Beach Resort in Dana Point, CA

January 20, 21, 22, 2017

This event has limited space and will sell out.

$550 per couple

SIGN UP NOW

Sign up for yourself or consider gifting this retreat to another couple.

  • Recognize the 5 love styles
  • Reveal your own style – and your mate’s
  • Reverse your predictable and damaging Core Patterns
  • Receive growth goals and tools to end harmful patterns
  • Realize your dream of a more passionate love

How We Love
Couples’ Retreat with Milan & Kay Yerkovich

Schedule

Friday, January 20:

  • 7-9PM: Arrival
  • Workshop Session 1
  • Dessert & Coffee

Saturday, January 21:

  • 8:30AM: Breakfast
  • 9-11AM: Workshop Session 2
  • 11AM – 6PM: Time on your own with your spouse for workshop content, relax and explore.
  • 6PM: Dinner
  • 7-9PM: Workshop Session 3
  • Dessert & Coffee

Sunday, January 22:

  • Check out at your own leisure

What’s Included

  • Your room for 2 nights
  • All taxes, fees and service charges
  • Porterage and gratuities
  • Overnight valet parking
  • Friday night coffee and dessert
  • Saturday morning breakfast
  • Saturday evening dinner

To sign up contact: lizlusk@relationship180.com or call 949-830-2846

Exciting News!!

We are so excited to announce:

Our two day Focus on the Family broadcast titled, “Discovering Your Love Style” is scheduled to re-air Monday, December 19, and Tuesday, December 20, 2016 as part of Focus on the Family’s Best of 2016 programs.

On the scheduled airdate, the streaming audio of this broadcast will appear on Their broadcast page – www.focusonthefamily.com/radio – along with a brief description. Their Facebook and Twitter pages will also link to the website on the airdate.

After the airdate, the program will be posted here for 31 days ( part 1 and part 2). Please note that this specific address might still be ‘under construction’ at this time, but will be complete by the airdate.

Also on the broadcast page, look for the Focus “Station Finder” to find stations that carry the program in your area. In addition, a downloadable podcast will be available on iTunes (just search for Focus on the Family Daily Broadcast).

Upcoming Events

Hi,

Here are some upcoming events in California that we wanted to let you know about!

October 1. 2016
How We Love Workshop
The Journey Christian Church
4849 Alton Prky.
Irvine, CA 92604
Saturday: 9:00am – 4:00pm
For more information or to register for this event, please click here.

October 7-8, 2016
How We Love Workshop
Moraga Valley Presbyterian Church
10 Moraga Valley Lane
Moraga, CA 94556
Friday: 7:00pm-9:30pm
Saturday: 1:00pm-5:00pm
For more information or to register for this event, please click here.

We would love to see you at one of these events! Thank you for your continued prayers and support.

Therapist Continuing Education Seminar

Therapist Continuing Education Seminar
“Attachment Theory”

Early Registration Pricing Ends July 15, 2016
Please register today!

Hello All,
Kay and I are teaching our six-hour therapist workshop on July 29, 2016 in Mission Viejo, CA and we wanted you to know about it! Here is what it’s all about:
• This course equips Psychologists, MFTs, LCSWs, interns, Pastoral Counselors and others to use attachment theory as a framework for couple’s therapy. Presenting issues that bring couples into therapy can frequently be dissected to reveal how attachment injuries give rise to the presenting symptoms.
• A review of attachment theory and research contrasts five common injurious attachment styles that block intimacy and further an insecure attachment. By teaching participants the interplay of the couples’ attachment styles and the common core pattern of interaction they produce, the therapist is equipped to target root issues rather than focusing on the surface symptoms.
• Specific therapeutic interventions are demonstrated, giving therapists the tools required to achieve treatment goals. This course teaches current peer reviewed research in the field of adult attachment and then goes beyond theory to practical application that creates a structure and map for effective couples’ therapy.
Register at www.relationship180.com on the “events” page. You can also call the offices of Relationship 180 at (949)830-2846 for further information.

Psychologists, therapists and interns will earn 6 C.E. credits that meet the requirements of the American Psychological Association and the California Board of Behavioral Science Examiners.

If you or anyone you know might find this workshop beneficial to their counseling practice or ministry, please pass this information along.

Thanks,
Milan Yerkovich

Date: Friday, July 29, 2016

Hours: 9 AM to 4 PM with a lunch break from 12-1

Location: Mission Hills Church, 24162 Alicia Parkway, Mission Viejo, CA 92691

Cost: Boxed Lunch is included
Early Registration for Licensed Practitioners: $179, After July 15, 2016: $229
Early Registration for Interns and Others: $99, After July 15, 2016: $149

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Focus on the Family Broadcast

We are excited to announce that Milan and Kay will have a two day Focus on the Family broadcast titled, “Discovering Your Love Style”. It is scheduled to air Thursday, July 7, and Friday, July 8, 2016. Please note, however, the air schedule is subject to change.

On the scheduled airdate, the streaming audio of this broadcast will appear on our broadcast page – www.focusonthefamily.com/radio – along with a brief description. Our Facebook and Twitter pages will also link to the website on the airdate

Also on the broadcast page, look for the Focus “Station Finder” to find stations that carry the program in your area. In addition, a downloadable podcast will be available on iTunes (just search for Focus on the Family Daily Broadcast).

Therapist Training

Therapist Training

Mission Viejo, CA

Therapist Continuing Education: “Working with Couples Using Attachment Theory” with Milan and Kay Yerkovich: Friday, July 29, 2016
6 CE Credits
This six hour course equips Psychologists, Marriage and Family Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Interns and students to utilize Attachment Theory as a framework for couples’ therapy. Presenting issues that bring couples into therapy can frequently be dissected to reveal how attachment injuries give rise to the presenting symptoms.
A review of Attachment Theory and research contrasts 5 common injurious Attachment Styles that block intimacy with Secure Attachment. By teaching participants the interplay of the couples’ Attachment Styles and the common core patterns of interaction that they produce, the therapist is equipped to target root issues rather than focusing on the surface symptoms.
Specific therapeutic interventions are demonstrated, giving therapists the tools required to achieve treatment goals. This course teaches current peer reviewed research in the field of adult attachment and then goes beyond theory to practical application that creates a structure and map for effective couples’ theory.

The California Board of Behavioral Sciences and the American Psychological Association authorizes Relationship 180 to provide training and continuing education units to counseling professionals. This course provides 6 CE Credits.

Hosted by Relationship 180: www.relationship180.com

For more information please click on the Events tab at howwelove.com