Core Pattern: Vacillator + Victim*

This core pattern is uncommon. Fortunately, the Vacillator + Pleaser pattern is very similar. Both the Pleaser and the Victim would have trouble standing up to the Vacillator’s anger. Pleasers may feel they can change the Vacillator if they try hard enough whereas the victim believes they are at fault and deserve the Vacillator’s anger. For more information about how these Love Styles interact, please refer to the page on the Vacillator + Pleaser.