Core Pattern: Pleaser + Victim*

This core pattern is very uncommon.  Fortunately, the Pleaser + Pleaser pattern is very similar. Here is the difference:  The Pleaser married to a Victim would be in a constant caretaking role, and may enable addictions the Victim uses to numb chilhood pain. For more information on how these Love Styles interact, please refer to the page on the Pleaser + Pleaser.